The form of love most of us know is “conditional” love.  It’s based on how well you perform, what you look like, what you can do for a person, how well you behave, what you can give…..etc., etc.  The problem with this kind of ‘human’ love is that it is so fallible.  A person can never be “good enough”….no matter how hard they try.  As humans, we are a fallen, imperfect thing.  No matter how hard a person tries, it cannot come close to meeting all the expectations or requirements to gain unconditional love.  There is truly only ONE unconditional love.  Until we stop trying to find that love in another person, in another “thing”, in something else in our life, we will never be completely whole.